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Receiving vs. Taking: The Art of Allowing Abundance
Mar 05, 2025
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Many people struggle with receiving. They brush off compliments, feel guilty when accepting help, or believe they must always give before they can receive. This often comes from the belief that receiving is the same as taking—but this is a misunderstanding. Receiving happens naturally and effortless...
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