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Grieving whilde someone is still alive Apr 25, 2025

There are moments in life when grief appears without a funeral ever taking place. No one has physically passed away, and yet the sorrow is unmistakable. Deep, raw, existential. This is often referred to as living loss: the pain of losing someone who is still alive, but graduall

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From Need to Readiness in Love Mar 28, 2025

There comes a moment when the longing for love no longer feels gentle or inviting, but becomes a hunger that leaves you empty. A moment when you notice yourself reaching out with your whole being toward someone, while a part of you actually wants to pull away. When you keep trying to receive somethi...

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How to Stop Doubting Yourself and Build Self-Confidence Mar 21, 2025

How to Stop Doubting Yourself and Build Self-Confidence

Doubt is a silent force that can creep into your daily life in the smallest moments. It’s that inner voice that makes you hesitate: am I good enough? Can I really do this? What if I fail?

For some, self-doubt is a fleeting thought, but when i...

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The Pain of Not Being Heard Mar 06, 2025

 

There is a quiet pain that many of us know but rarely speak about. It’s the pain of not being heard—the disappointment that settles in your heart when you realize that someone isn’t truly listening. They don’t take the time to pause, to be present, to ask deeper questions. They don’t make space f...

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Receiving vs. Taking: The Art of Allowing Abundance Mar 05, 2025

Many people struggle with receiving. They brush off compliments, feel guilty when accepting help, or believe they must always give before they can receive. This often comes from the belief that receiving is the same as taking—but this is a misunderstanding. Receiving happens naturally and effortless...

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